Looking tore up on purpose. Hear the words instead of looking at images. Beauty is vain, looks fade, make up can be deceiving. Beauty is with in. We all get old and die one day, and dust to the ground we shall return, so again I pray judge not the image but l hear the words God bless! I love everyone! God loves us more! TRUTHS! Speak LIFE unto the people! This is called Being Single for the WRONG purpose! A Healing Word by Michelle Stokes
It is said that the golden rule can be the same as Luke 6:31. Is anyone tired of broken families? Tired of seeing loved ones destroy each other? Tired of the hurt that comes with broken relationships with God? I am not a religion, but I do have some solid core teachings based from the Word of God, that if applied we may be able to walk in the land of the LIVING, according to GOD.
In Luke 6:31 it basically says treat others as you want to be treated. I really pray many people start to apply this in all things we do. As people we all want to be lifted up. So many times I have been a shoulder for friends to cry on, and they all seem to love me as long as I say poor baby. Oh yes, he did that and she did this, how terrible of them. Then I am a hero. But lately the things I have seen is so many people pointing blame on others they use this to justify them self, and nobody ever looks with in, so no problems get solved. Really hard to have pity when you are a witness to such things, I tell you. Then if I point out your faults, I am no longer your friend. That seems rather odd, you think?
In the story of Adam and Eve. They both did wrong then they pointed blame on everyone else. This is much the same people do now. and if you really examine the Word and this world you see the ones who suffer the most are the ones who sit in the circles and point blame. God wants us to walk in a straight line my friends. I offer this advice to couples really trying to stay together.
In order to be heard.. There needs to be a spirit of unity. a spirit of compassion and spirit of peace. a Humble contrite heart. Both parties need to realize no one can be perfect all the time. I pray many people start reading their Word and using it as a guide to LIFE. We can all continue to point blame on everyone, but look where that has gotten us! The same as all people in the Word, who did not want to hear God. There was a hardening of hearts, and as a result the people suffer, the families are broken.
In the past I wrote articles like this and the churches rebuked me, then I seen them preach my messages in their churches. I pray that not be the case. but if so that the one who will take my work and claim it as their own; it is the same as a thief and also has a legal word attached to it called plagiarism. I pray instead of my messages falling into thieves hand who will not even go to the world, but stay inside their building, I pray my words land in the lap, hearts, and ears and eyes of sinners who were left behind. The people abandoned by churches and religion.The ones who were told they were hopeless. The broken, the lost. I pray my words reach you and that my words draw you to God, and help you build your LIFE, instead of another church building, or another thief who will steal and use it for their own vain purposes, in Jesus name Amen!, and please if my messages inspire you to write your own articles that is lovely, but it sure would be nice to see some people who claim to love God give the due respect to the author. For most of the times the churches call me a devil, but then oddly again preach my messages in their building.
I pray this time God himself prevent that from happening, and instead God let a bunch of broken people be lead to me, so we can grow together in your Word LORD. Protect my work from the hands of thieves and devils who only want to sow discord. Let it land in the hands of the lost and let it be a great blessing to them GOD, all for your glory and honor Lord and for the souls of many! Have a blessed day dear people.
You know so many Churches have come to my page and said blessings, but then ask for a blessing in return and they disappear. Many be readers of the WORD, For even sinners bless sinners, but God forbid a Godly (?) person bless anyone. They steal messages but yet somehow don’t even leave a tip. Will you thieves please get off my page. Have a blessed day dear reader. Written by a woman who indeed cares for your soul, and while many speak heaven and hell, I pray my messages speak LIFE INTO YOUR SOUL! Shalom dear people!
Written by A Healing Word, Michelle Stokes, This is part of my Domestic violence series. First part can be found here. Or here, Abusive Women. More to come on this series soon! If my articles inspire you in any type of way, I invite you to join me daily for inspiration. Follow me on facebook! Have a blessed day and I pray God restore the hearts, minds and souls of the reader and fill you with peace of mind and new life in Jesus name Amen!
Hello friends, readers, to the audience I say, take a seat, pull up a chair, I have some good sound advice to any who will listen, Also heed, because if not they just be words blown in the wind, Then if that be the case I pray it lands on someone else’s lap and it become a huge blessing and good food for their life, in Jesus name Amen. Sorry if the word Jesus offends you. I pray these words do not for they are truth. With that said. let us begin.
This is the introduction to a series I am writing. I say from the beginning, I am not picking on any. Again this is a series where I approach all members. We have all heard so many stories about men and women fighting. Usually most punishment always seems to fall on men, Not always but a high percentage of cases do. Men should know better, they say, and men should walk away. But here be the thing. I have been around many domestic violence situations, with many different colors of people, so I am not picking on any race, but speaking to people in general. They all seem to end the same. The results being a broken home.
Now I say from the get go, I am not on men’s side. My motto has always been, If you are putting your hands on each other, Then to me that means the relationship is over. But then this does without a doubt leave no room for repenting, and since I believe in God, I do know people can change, but not all people want to. They would rather point blame.
So with that said, I will explain some things I seen, Then I always ask myself. How is the men wrong? How much is he suppose to take? What happens when the man can not run away? The woman jumps in front of the door? and prevents him from leaving. The only way for a man to flee is to push her out the way, or some sort of something physical? Because the woman is not humble? She screams at him. She punches the man in the face, (not once but many times) Spits on him. calls Him the p word and all types of thing? What does the man do then? Is provoking people to anger any better then physical violence? Is a woman hitting a man the same? How long do we justify bad behavior?
What happens if this behavior goes on for hours? What happens when the cops come and the woman goes to jail? (Which they are now doing.) But still it is mostly men who are the wrong, by the eyes of law usually. Sorry I have seen too much domestic violence, in my life, and I always think I am a girl, and she did that to me I would beat her behind.
I believe in God and this is where I apply God’s Word. In Proverbs 15:1 it says a kind word turns away wrath. Ladies it is not ok to hit your men. If you don’t want to be hit, then why put your hands on them? If you don’t want to be spit on, why spit on them? Abuses is abuse no matter who does it!!! Men I do not encourage you to hit your women either, But to do whatever you have to, to flee the scene.
Woman, mostly the ones who punch their men, and act all kinds of ugly are often the first to yell abuse when the police show up at the door. They are even the ones who called the police, completely over looking how they attacked first. Neither do they mention that when the cops show up. Many women slander good men’s name, all because they are having a tantrum, because they can not get their way. This is not right ladies, so basically what you are saying is, Submit to me or I throw you in jail. Seems to be the new way for many, and my friends these things ought not be. All these things lead to broken homes, and just ask all the single parents, how much fun it is to do things alone?
Relationship are not about one. It’s two people. if your partner is abusing you, whether it be man, or woman, it is without a doubt time to move on, or seek counseling for both, and seek God also. I myself would say seek God, together, but since half the world does not want to hear about God. I pray God help you both humble. That the Lord Jesus becomes your mediator between your marriage. That who ever be the one angered, that you let the Lord teach you some anger management. That is my advice and prayers for many, who ever will hear, and I pray it be many.
I pray God help the people restore families, and homes and also lead you to be good husbands and wives, I pray nobody be stuck playing house either, (acting the part without the papers) but that two people get faithfully committed, and both humble them self before God, so that you may have a chance to fight all the ugliness, the devil will throw at relationships.
Prayer can move mountains for the ones who pray, but if you start praying for your relationship make sure you are looking at all your faults first, or don’t be surprised if your prayers fall into death ears. For God likes the ones who humble, not the ones who point fingers, faultless in their own eyes. Are you guiltless before God? Examine our self my friends. This message is for all who it applies to! Again, You can read it, you can hear it, but unless you apply it. They be just words blown in the breeze. I pray instead they land in the soil of many homes, and be used to plant life with in, and God help many people restore families, in Jesus name Amen!
God bless the reader, and thanks for keeping up with me. If anything I have wrote, or typed, touched you or helped you any type of way I invite you to come join me on facebook. This was written by A Healing Word by Michelle Stokes. (click link and like my face book for daily news feed!) I pray the peace of God enter the readers, hearts, minds, and souls and God lead you to sound Wisdom to help you do good in this LIFE, my friends! Shalom and have blessed day in the LORD! <3 <3
Ladies this message is to you and I pray it be a blessing to many. For we are not dirty panties to be tossed on the side. Neither are we wedding dresses to be hung in the closets, to be worn once and displayed before many and never seen again. . Something you wear one day and never touch again.
In the Book of Proverbs and even Genesis God made us, we are treasures. God’s greatest gift to man was and is woman. Each was made to complete each other. Not any two men on earth can make a baby.and all people did come from a woman’s womb.
They say Eve tempted Adam but then that would mean Adam had no mind of his own. So they all sat and pointed blame on another. Anyways I pray woman out there get some self esteem and stop settling for any old thing that comes along. Recognize and realize the gift you are and then let us put God first and perhaps our families could get some of the help they need.
For God made woman to be a help meet in our time of need. When men fail the wisdom of the woman will lead the people. We are not garments to be hung in a closet. Neither are we slaves and show pieces for our husbands. I pray many woman out there get some self worth and recognize the treasure they are. I have a message for the men I will write later. But until then, Ladies lets clean up our dressing and do things to get God’s favor here on earth, Amen!
Written by a true friend who loves people. Time to get in our Word and NOT STAY IGNORANT TO IT! Let the Word of God be preached all through the Nations and the truth of the WORD WHOLE! Not just bits and pieces AMEN!
Sorry to the men, this message offends for I am told woman should not preach, but long ago men abandoned me and I did marry God and God said SPEAK! So I will gladly listen to my husband! Rejoice in the LORD Always! and prepare your hearts WITH THE WHOLE GOSPEL! For God is NOT SEPARATED! NEITHER IS HE DIVIDED!
God is family and ever since Cain murder Abel there has always been a devil who divides and points fingers. It is the same as in the garden. Until this day. it is the same! Time for change my friends! Change starts WITH IN! I pray many do not reject knowledge but read it WHOLE! Put the Word of God in our members. Start with reading the bible WHOLE!
For if your eye is tainted so is your whole member. One sided bible reading keeps the people locked in bondage! LETTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT MYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY PEOPLEEEEEEEEE GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Also this is not written to step on any toes or bruise people’s ego. but indeed it is time for us to become wise to the WORD! WISE AS SERPENTS, HARMLESS AS DOVES. PEACE BE UNTO ALL WHO ACCEPT GOD, AND WOEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE UNTO THEM WHO REJECT GOD!
Ladies guard your heart. Everyone wants to be in a relationship it seems. Which is a good thing, but many are going at it all the wrong ways. Some things in my life I have observed. For the most part I do not believe in that fairy tale love of three days. But something the movies do have pretty accurate when it comes to love is. Men in love will do many things for their woman. They will climb mountains, move across seas. Fight a lion or tiger to get the woman they love.
I have seen men do some foolish things all for the woman they love. It makes me laugh and cry all at the same time. I say, boy now that is love! I see a lot of ladies hurting. You’re crying, but then you are chasing down your man. I have noticed a man in love, does not need to be told to call and check on his girl. Stop making excuses for them men who never call you. The odds are greatly high if you are always calling him, if it is you, making you guys spend time together. I will save you a world of hurt don’t bother.
I know nobody wants to hear it. But if you are the only person in a relationship ever calling, the only one who sends the first text always. it is a good sign that man does not love you. In the best interest for your own heart, and your own feelings, you have to let him go. Sometimes men do not even realize they are in love, until the girl takes that first step of saying, screw you buddy I am not chasing any man. Then your absence seems to make them realize they love you. But that does not always work like that, because some men don’t love you and they are just using you. How do I know which is which?
The men in love come after you. Why haven’t you been calling. Where are you? I miss you. A real man in love calls his woman, He wants her by his side. It does not have to be forced on him. Ladies please open your eyes and guard your heart. Years ago men were the pursuers. They did the chasing. Now ladies keep following men who don’t even want them. Time for us to wake up.
A man who really wants you will come for you and that is truths. We need to wake up. Just because you want to eat the whole cake all in one sitting, does not mean you should. Sometimes you have to realize I would rather hurt and loose him, then to keep hurting by being ignored. I mean if you are crying because he never spends time with you. might as well make it one last official cry and just get rid of the guy. He is no good for you. A man who loves you will find a way to stay in your life. This is what I truly believe to be true from all things I have seen in many relationships, in many years all through my life.
It is really sad to let men do harmful things to you, just because we crave someone and then want to call it love. How can you love a man that does not even respect you, enough to call? I don’t think that is love. It is the old human nature; we want things we can’t have. Get over that painful stuff. Please. I love you and care about you and I am tired of seeing ladies cry over men they should never of been with in the first place.
Nobody wants to hear this. But most of the time people go looking for relationships and then they get in trouble, because they are trying to make something they want happen. Be patient and just let it happen on it’s own. I also see some of the best relationships in the world who are still standing after many years, is when the parties say. “I wasn’t even looking for love” Sorry not a message many want to hear, But who likes being broken hearted? I don’t know I won’t let men walk over me, and I truly would rather die alone then be with somebody who doesn’t even think of me. Anyways just a random thought. I pray it help anyone in Jesus name Amen!
Men if your lady is bad to you also. You should leave her also. Just my advice. I don’t know about you guys, But I am worth more then that!
Now I must be some kind of special, But I am going to speak of my lifetime. maybe I am special, For I have met at least 1 million couples in my lifetime or more, and so many looking for made up things. I doubt many even know what love is.
So many live in some fairy tale movie, or perhaps a romance novel, and these things have really ruined a lot of people’s conception of what love is. First of all, this is not a Walt Disney film. Nor is it a movie, where we all live in some fairy tale castle. But I am guessing this is where the perfect couples must be. For I have never met a perfect couple.
I have seen two people who both know how to work together. No where have I sat in my life and see this love many speak of or want. Love is long suffering. It is being able to over come things. It is about two people coming to an agreement, about their future as a team.
So many following lust and then crying saying they want love, but wouldn’t even know love if it hit them in the face. Love is about compromise. Through thick and thin until death do us part. So many men and women looking for sugar daddies. or mommas, and then getting mad when the one who controls the money, treats them a certain way.
Sometimes it is better to work to the top with someone who understands you. Someone who listens to your feelings. Someone who like you, has both interest in mind. it is not about how hot she is. Or what they possess, it is about being friends. it is about listening to each other’s feelings. I pray many people come out of their device type thinking. Look around at the couples who make it.
They put a lot of work in. I mean this is what I see with my eyes and I don’t live in a television, Maybe perhaps that is why I see different. Who knows, but I do pray this message put some reality into people’s thinking. Learn that life is not easy. This ain’t a movie and a lot of people never get their happy ending, because they are too busy, chasing fairy tales. Just something to think about. I pray this random thought bring others to think, in Jesus name Amen!